Hey guys, Duke here for the self positive blog. Today we’re talking about the advantages of self confidence.
It’s a whole list of stuff. this blog post is a little bit of a list things. So I’m just going to talk about a whole bunch of stuff, give you some background and then check out the blog post for the exercises and stuff. Alright, so first thing first advantage of self confidence, self confident people are able to meet deadlines and get shit done. Self Confidence is the ability to make people
perform
better, like in my last post I was talking about part of self esteem, like the major part of self esteem is the ability to keep your promises to yourself. And when you
have the sense of consistency of keeping your promises on a constant basis, then you’re much better
at making good promises for the future. So
the enthusiasm of getting things done is
sort of self propagating. The
it’s not just you that has the
positive mood benefits from self confidence increase. If your confidence is such that you think you can get something accomplished, then everybody around you is going to feel that energy as well. And that’s super badass. self confident people get a lot more stuff done, mostly because they’re not second guessing themselves. There’s no self doubt there’s no they’re just like, all right, it’s getting done. I don’t know how it’s getting done. Even if they, I mean,
part of the way to build a self confidence is to be really, really good at
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Something in my old coach Ross, he used to call that performance called confidence
Something in my old coach Ross, he used to call that performance called confidence.
But
even if you don’t have a massive amount of skill at something, you can still be super confident about the outcome knowing that you’ll figure it out knowing that you’ll find a result. So that inspires everybody around you.
The second benefit of being self confidence you have a positive outlook, self confident person is usually organized around the stuff he’s confident about. And he’s able to stick to a schedule he or she or it or they or whatever.
They if you’re organized, you can stay on top of stuff in every arena, you know, let things fall through the cracks. And that’s it goes a long way into creating trust for yourself. And it goes a long way to creating trust everybody else trusting you if you able to finish your tasks on time
If you’re able to do what you said you’re going to do, when it’s needed, it’s super encouraging and it helps other people trust you and give you not only more responsibility but more of the rewards of being served.
Third one is so positive people are often healthier
Third one is so positive people are often healthier.
When you have your mind right, and you’re super confident, you’re not having the self doubt creep in and take you out and create anxiety and depression and all that it actually keeps your physical body healthier. When you’re not dealing in negative spirals of depression. You can just go and do what you want and build this positive spiral of awesomeness by achieving everything you’re trying to do and collaborate with the people that you want to collaborate with with level head. If you believe that you can get through pretty much any situation, solve any problem
keeps the anxiety low, it keeps the depression low. And so all the real health problems up my blood pressure. And I shouldn’t say real mental health is real, but all the physical health problems,
high blood pressure and hypertension and like flipping out on people, you’re likely to live a healthier life and add a couple years to it.
The next benefit of self confidence is
you can spend more quality time at home.
Basically, if you if you’re working, or if you’re going to school, and you’re getting your tests done, and they’re overwhelming you and you’re not, you’re not getting taken out by the anxiety or the the worry or the future projection that you know your assignments or your work tasks are coming up and just looming and
screwing your brain up. Then
you can kind of put that stuff to the side knowing you handled
Everything or that it’s going to be handled. And when you put that stuff to the side, it gives you much more presence with the people that you love with the, you know, the the fun times that you’re having in the social space, they’d be more agreeable, you’re going to be more upbeat, and they’re going to want to spend more time with you too. And that’s beneficial for everybody.
kind of related to that the next one is self confident people are better friends and partners.
It’s easier to invest time in relationship. When you’re
on cloud nine. When you’re up on yourself, you’re organized and you when you have the time when you have the resources to give to people. The more you once you fix your mess alone and baseline you’re able to relate to people in ways that they need to get their needs met instead of focusing on your own lack and or focusing on your own problems.
When you’re super confident, you can
bring other people into your space because you can kind of shoulder their burden as well. And it’s not a problem for you because you’re you have your solution finder, you’re a person who gets things done. So
you can draw lines better between the things that you do in your everyday life, your work and your school and all that stuff. And with your relationships with your friends, your family, your partners, because
when you can be present for people, they will reciprocate and
it creates a much more harmonious relationship with you, like self confident people seem to be able to bind relationships really, really well because they take the care in the time that they have like they actually care. And they’re actually present in the time that that we’re spending with people.
The next one is self confident people generally have a higher income
If you work well independently because you believe that
you can get things done. If you delegate confidently knowing that you can get things done, then people start to trust you and then you start creating better results in the workplace.
When you start getting projects done on time you hit your deadlines, you do what you say you’re going to do, everybody respects you in that way, and they’re likely to keep you moving forward with promotions and raises. And if they’re not moving you forward, they’re just taking advantage of you. So make sure you ask for the raises and self confidence people are also able to be that kind of assertive.
The last one is people look up to self confident people, even the air of self confidence, even if you’re not confident in every area all the time. But you’re you can
feel comfortable in the environment that you meet people Cellcom, the people are more likely to attract personal
professional goals because
people just want to be around somebody who’s confident. And if you look down on yourself and you’re always second guessing, other people don’t want to feel that pain. And so they’re less likely to connect to build rapport with you. People look up to you if you’re self confident, because you have an energy like a magnetism, a charisma that draws other people in.
If you believe in yourself, you have the courage to solve the problems that other people don’t want to solve and deal with anything that’s sewn in your way people like to be around you, and that helps when
nurturing leadership when you’re creating leadership, and so once you get that leadership, you have plenty of opportunities to collaborate and get the bigger things accomplished, the things that take more than just you.
Awesome. So it’s a short one today, but that is the
power positive benefits of being self the advantages of self confidence.
doing this every day and getting better every day. So hit me up tomorrow self positive.org slash blog.
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till tomorrow, stay awesome. Stay Positive